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May 11

We lit a candle for you today!



Wow!

It's been a year.

We have lived a whole year without you.

It has not been easy. It has been some sort of hell or purgatory. Nothing has remained the same my love.

I have mourned you for the last twelve months my Larondo, The hole your demise left in my heart is still bleeding, Self consolation is my last resort, I have no one else but me to console me.




I kept you out of the eye of the storm. I chose to mourn you alone. No mention of you in the social media, although I have read all 363 posts on this blog. I have watched all your videos, I have looked through all your pictures. I also went to see that special piece of the earth where your mortal body rests. 

Just last week your sister wished upon a star and now she believes wishes don't come true. Because she wished you would come back home by the time she returned from school. She misses you so much, maybe more than us adults. You were her playmate, her partner in naughtiness.

I chose today to take a major life step, I chose today to pursue liberation. 

In all, today your sister and I lit a candle for you, in memory of your passing. We remember you everyday. You are hard to forget my darling no one is even trying to forget you. My heart is heavy, a few other burdens here and there but I am certain I will triumph: this past year has prepared me for for what lies ahead. My anchor is firm, I am Ready.

Continue to sleep in bliss my Nadya, My Hope






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